I just read this wonderful article about love and I must had to share it and give my own response! 🙂 hope you enjoy! !
This is wonderful and I completely agree with it. Thomas and I have, obviously, not been very traditional in our relationship, in many ways, but I am honestly thankful for it going the way it has. As we move forward with our lives, and as we plan this wedding, I know completely that this is the man I will spend the rest of my life with. After 3 years, a child, a painstaking divorce, a step son, surgery, sickness, giant moves, difficult people and a lot of petty and real arguments, I still love him. As this article reads, I chose to love him. Every second of every day. Even when I don’t like him very much.
I have a very good image in my head of what our lives together will look like, and is not all sunshine and rainbows. But it’s real. If is the most real thing I’ve ever known and I can’t wait to go through all the storms and especially all the sunshine and rainbows I know that we will go through. Because for me, this is the first relationship I’ve had were looking back on our days together, I see smiles, laughter, cuddling and joy before I see the tears (unless we’re in a fight, because I have to be dramatic in a fight 😉 ).